"Ashleigh" seriously just needs to grow the fuck up. What a "great" friend. Pft.

I hope you guys work things out, even though she seems like kind a bitch to me.

Eew how old are these tramps? Starting drama is SO immature anyway, but once you are a mother, you are held to a new standard in my eyes.

J - They are 19 and 20.

I'm so sorry for you! I COMPLETELY understand you, I also get very shaken up when this kind of things happen… I think you reacted very well by sending this email. It is sincere and nice. I hope she will be mature enough to answer and to understand. GOD I just hate impulsive people who can't deal with a misunderstanding like grown-up people!!

I can be perfectly honest? In a small way, I can see where your friend Ashleigh might be ticked. Before me and my best friend became really close like we are now she use to joke around with me all the time. The thing is, only one of us was laughing. When I told her to lighten it up a bit, her response was merely, "Aww..come on! I was just joking!" Yeah, I know she didn't mean much harm (even though at the time I felt like she did) but it still hurt. I even stopped talking to her awhile because I considered her immature and inconsiderate of my feelings. And some those emotions may have been going through your friend's head. Sometimes you really have to put yourself in the other persons shoes to guy a different perspective of a perceived overreaction.

However, I do think they way she choose to handle the situation afterward is inexcusable. You sincerely apologized and if that wasn't enough for her she should have came to you up front and told you so. No need to get other parties involved. I hate that kind of stuff too.

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Damn typos.

I also apologize for any other typos. I running on two hours of sleep right now.

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To be honest, Britney. Even though I don't know you personally, I did suspect she wasn't a good friend when she ditched you awhile back when you guys made plans.

People like that have the issues. I've found it more common that young mothers are more immature than high school girls. How sad. SHE needs to straight up and not take things so seriously, especially since you were the bigger person and apologized. Pfft. LAAAME. You're better than that!

People like her aren't weren't the trouble to be honest, they seem to thrive on stupid high school drama. You've apologised to her just in case you offended her (which would be stupid, doesn't she have a sense of humour?), what more does she want? None of this is your fault, you've done all of the right things, she's the one who has caused this problem - it isn't worth getting upset about (:
I hope she does respond to the message, it would be very immature of her if she didn't!

I wouldn't even bother with her. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Who needs her? You deserve way better.

Aww, that sucks. I would say something mean about her, but… well, that would be just as bad as her little convo on MySpace, wouldn't it?

I think you're being way too nice and understanding. Tell her you're over her immature bullshit and avoid her at all costs. Be professional in the workplace, but the rest of the time? Forget her.

I can see whta youmean, it sounds like everything's just been blown WAY out of proportion! Oh well, I hope you can sort it out, but if you don't, I wouldn't worry too much, it sounds like it'll be her loss.

You should find a new friend, she doesn't seem like a great friend. She needs to grow up if she doesn't get a JOKE, she really has no humor. Also you shouldn't beat yourself up about it.. Like you deserve better you don't need her =]

I'd be really upset about this too if I were you. I hate it when people I've never met before talk about me, especially in the way that girl did.
It would be nice if Ashleigh wants to talk about it with you and solve the whole problem. I mean, you're colleagues and you're still going to have to work together!
Good luck!
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Aww, I'm so sorry. I know exactly what you're going through. I was depressed for a long time over being bullied to. I use to be scared to go to class and still am sometimes. But, this will all blow over. I honestly don't think she's mad at just you. I just think she's angry overall in life and it just came out on you =/. Much love

Oddly enough, I'm pretty much going the same crap right now with someone. So, I know how you feel. You did deal with it very maturely. However, in my opinion, I don't think she's going to act very nicely in return. I don't know, I could be wrong. I hope things get better. =D

I m so sorry she acted like that Brit!!
I know it wasn't exactly sweet what you said but it didt mean that you were meddling in her life or that you were calling her a shrinker or whatever it's called!
I am sorry you had to go through this!
And I mean after everything, she wasnt hurt, she was angry!! and she didnt even discuss it with you!
You are right it is not mature especially if you apologized and tried to fix things which is a lot more than other people do!!!
*hug*

She's not worth your time, seriously. She handled this situation in a completely immature manner by talking about you behind your back to a person who doesn't even know you! You tried to fix things, but in the end, it's her fault for acting so immature. Don't let this get to you!

Wow. They sound nothing like mums. I feel sorry for kids with mums like that! And like everyone else has said, you've been too nice and understanding and she's not worth your time!

I hate catty bitches too, that's why most of my friends are guys lol. Nice site

online drama is for kids. the worse thing you can do to somone is IGNORE them. move on and away from her supersensitive silly ass.

Oh wow, her and I would never get along then haha. I do the same with my friends. -They say something stupidly funny- -I laugh- "You are such a retard".

Thats retarded of her to freak out like that. I could see if you said something worse than being a retard [a swear word for example] then her being a little upset. But still, wow. Girls eh?

I hope you get through this the best way possible.

Try to calm down, these things usually end up for the best, either you finish up this friendship, which tell that it wasn't that good after all, or you sort it out and that should strengh your relationship.

Missunderstandings happen all the time.

I get offended all the time for the wrong reasons, so I kind of understand "Ashley's" feelings. Not everyone knows you that well, so despite the smile, being called retarded is not exactly nice.
Then again, once you apologized she should have let it go.

I swear to gah, those comments really ticked me off. I mean, Ashleigh has the freedom to be offended and stuff, but it's obvious that she and that friend of hers think too highly of themselves. It's one of my biggest peeves when people start calling people they barely/don't know names. How assuming can you be, dumbass.