I hate bitches who talk shit:part 2
Posted on: April 20, 2008 at 10:06 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Not much has happened since the last entry, but I said I would update you all on the situation, so I will. I am feeling a lot better now. Things aren't as dramatic. I'm still a bit nervous about seeing her at work on Tuesday, but I'm sure it will be fine. To clear something up, I was only apologizing and being nice to settle the drama. I do not, under any circumstance, want to be her friend again. She is nothing more than a hypocrite who thinks she is better than everyone.

After I sent her that message, she replied back with this: "um there is no drama.. i wrote a status when i got home that day about it, and she was asking me about it, what i talk about with my friends is my business, and im not even worried about it anymore, i just thought it was dumb, and immature, but i move on with my life, and dont let anything stupid or little like this slow me down, and p.s. stop stalking my page?? ive never done anything wrong to you, but when you act like that, i dont want to associate my self with the drama, i have no time or room for people that like to stir shit up in my life, im not mad, im fine, i dont really even care about it anymore, it just irritated me at the time."

If that reply is not hypocritical, then I do not know what is. There is no drama? I think calling me a "bitch" and a "hater" on someones myspace qualifies as drama. She may have thought my joke was dumb and immature, but the way she reacted was even more dumb and immature. She's never done anything wrong to me? Hmm… let's see… I think standing me up without a message or phone call doesn't exactly cut it as the "right" thing to do, therefore making it wrong. I'm stirring shit up in her life? No, it was a joke that I apologized for. She stirred shit up in my life!

Now I've got that out of the way. I'm moving on from this situation, and I am glad to have her out of my life.

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Brandy - 04.20.08 @ 10:27 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

You deserve way better. Glad to hear that you're officially done with that biatch. :) You don't need people like her. You're a nice girl.

Amanda - 04.20.08 @ 10:49 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

She sounds like a cracked out crazy person. Wow.

Amy - 04.20.08 @ 11:15 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Yeah I had a lot of torment in school as well with drama. And now that I'm 25 it happens less but it still happens and you know what, I get really upset about it like you do to this day. But the key is to say your piece and then just drop it. Apologizing was very mature of you and a good idea. some people are too sensitive to take certain jokes and they tend to perceive it as an attack on themselves. Her reaction to the situation was upsetting for sure and very much uncalled for but put yourself in her shoes and I'm sure you would have reacted similar. Most people would. I think you did great at being mature and apologising and if she doesn't want to be mature and accept your apology then just leave it as it is and move on. Someone's gotta take the high road and it might as well be you. :)
Try not to let seeing her at work worry you either. She'll likely behave.
I had a drama situation with 2 gossip girls the other day. I'm not new to the scene. if you ever need to talk about this kind of stupid stuff we unfortunately still have to deal with, e-mail me any time.

Vera - 04.21.08 @ 12:05 am (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Eh… I'd say let it go.

Personally, I like to rant a lot, and oor Rachael generally gets to hear it, though by the end I tend to realize that in the end it was really stupid of me.

Maybe she realized this too, but was much too proud to admit it. She shouldn't have had this convo in a public place and that would've solved stuff.

Don't fret, you apologized, and she doesn't want to acknowledge it. Her loss. Hope you feel better.

Holly - 04.21.08 @ 12:21 am (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Man! She sounds like a total waste of your time and energy! I'm glad you're done with her, lol!

Helga - 04.21.08 @ 9:32 am (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

She doesn't want to associate herself with drama, yet she seems the type to start it. Don't be nervous about work. If anything, things'll be awkward, but I do hope she'll be civil.

Amy - 04.21.08 @ 9:59 am (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Sounds like she doesn't want to own up to what she actually did. I read the convo you posted in the last entry, and it was harsh! I would be so upset reading that about myself and she doesn't want to admit she was wrong? Whoe. lol

Britt - 04.21.08 @ 1:14 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Wow she really is hypocrite.

What's kinda funny (?) though is that what you are doing now, posting her messages etc. on here and letting us comment on them, is quite the same as what she did on MySpace.

Though I think you have more rights to say she is a bitch, haha. But yea, you're better off without her anyway. ;)

Britney - 04.21.08 @ 1:59 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Britt - I see what you are saying, and I've thought about it. However, I don't see me writing her messages on here as the exact same thing. This is my blog where I write my feelings and my life. I needed to vent, and I keep this to look back on. Also, by me posting her messages, I am telling the story exactly how it is. When she ran her mouth to that girl, she didn't tell the whole story. She made me sound like a bitch who was running my mouth to her, when all I did was make a joke. She never told the girl that it was a joke. I have told nothing but the whole story here. I think it's a bit different.

Kelly - 04.21.08 @ 2:50 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Damn, it just keeps on giving doesnt it?
Meh, dont let it bring you down girl!!!
Just let it go and just go on!!!
*hug*

Kaleigh - 04.21.08 @ 4:34 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Although I think she's incredibly immature and I'm not liking her very much right now, I have to bring up a point: how exactly did you get to reading her comments?

Of course all of us are guilty of the same thing, but I'm not quite understanding why you'd go on HER MySpace page seeing that she's been so incredibly rude to you.

Just saying, please don't attack me! :)

Shannon - 04.21.08 @ 8:20 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

She sounds really immature and if you ask me I'm glad you have her out of your life. You don't need to associate yourself with those types of people. She needs to grow up.

Brandi - 04.21.08 @ 9:48 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

WOW. She is really worse than I thought. Her grammar, punctuation, and spelling is awful. She really doesn't sound like a mother to me ha ha.

I'm glad you're not going to be her friend again, because you're worth more than that. SHE is the one who would bring you down. She has some serious issues to sort out before she can point fingers.

You did the right thing by being mature, unlike me, where I would've knocked some bitches.

Britt - 04.22.08 @ 2:56 pm (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Britney: Yea I know that's why I said you kind of have the right to call her a bitch! Lol.

Destiny - 04.23.08 @ 11:43 am (4 months, 2 weeks ago)

Her reply definitely is hypocritical… not to mention, total contradictions of herself. I'm glad that you are moving on though. I hope it turns out better for you!

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